Years ago Suzy and I were having some coffee in a restaurant when an old friend called Mary came up. She did not recognize at first sight that Suzy was pregnant and said something like: "Looks like you are getting fat to her."
She never excuses that sentence and sit a while with us and talked.
After she was gone, Suzy said:"This will have consequence for her."
Right now, four years after it, we (Suzy and me) sit again in a restaurant for a nice cup of coffee and having a look at the people wandering through the lobby of the hotel to which this restaurant belongs.
We were talking about something else, when a couple said goodbye to each other with a 2 minute kiss. As the female turns around, we recognized that is was Mary.
It took only a moment for Suzy to take her phone and calling Mark who is Mary´s husband and asking, if he knows why his wife is kissing a stranger for two minutes.
Should I say their divorce was not nice at all...
The lesson I have learned is: Never call a pregnant woman fat.
Any lessons you have learned and want to share?